Men and women have a hard time to deal with rejection. But both sexes agree with something: it is always women’s fault! When men are rejected they blame women; when women are rejected they blame themselves. When a man gets a “no”, he doesn’t spend much time thinking about if he has done something wrong. He usually thinks that the woman is trying to make it hard or that she has unsolved issues. On the other hand, if a woman is rejected, she will go on a diet; she will work out every day; she will see a psychologist; she will think over every single word she said… But the most interesting fact is that it isn’t anybody’s fault. It has been proved that attraction is chemical, not emotional, not logic. It happens or it doesn’t happen. You can’t push it. When there isn’t this attraction at the beginning and the couple insists in keeping a relationship, instead of dealing with rejection, they have to deal with frustration. Men feel like sleeping with any woman available because of machismo. Women feel like doing it because a misinterpreted feminism.
It would be very nice to look at this subject under a different perspective.
Fotógrafo/Photographer: Stefano Paterna (direitos reservados/copyrighted)